Hello World.

As I am a Psychologist-to-be, it will be my future Job to help people with their problems in life and so I will try to share some experiences with you :) I called this page urban-valYou ("value") because nowadays society and the urban life have a huge influence on our well-being, and it is up to us to react on it and to learn how to value life. So I hope you enjoy it :) 


Life is not about finding yourself, it's about CREATING yourself. 
We live in a beautiful world...we just need to open our eyes to see the whole beauty of it... 


Your life is the mirror of all your experiences, your memories and your feelings. Your life is the result of all the decisions you make, all the paths you choose and all the people you have met so far and will meet in the future. 

Each and everyone of us had to make the experience that not every meeting was positive for our well-being, but even those experiences helped us to learn something in life: we cannot explain everything that happens to us, but...do we really have to? 


Do we really need to questionnate everything that surrounds us? 
Why do we bother so much about things that make us sad, instead of concentrating on things that make us happy? 
And why is our society obssessed with the opinion that "everything happens for a reason"? Because it DOESN'T!! 

Of course, there are many things you cannot control, but if you go through life with a positive attitude you will see that some things aren't as bad as they seem! You have to stop worrying about people talking crab about you... A smart person once said that, some people are just angry because the truth you speak may contradict the lie they live. 

Stop asking yourself what YOU did wrong... because in most of the cases it is not something YOU did, but something someone else did... or not. 

We have to start LIVING the life we were given, because our lifetime is limited and we're not meant to live a life others want us to live. 
WE have to choose the way we want it to be. 

So feel free and make mistakes...Give yourself the opportunity to make wonderful memories!!

Society wants us to grow up, but... do we really need to?? 
In some cases we dolphinatly need to (hihi I love this word :D) but we don't have to give up on everything that may seems childish but makes us happy!! 

Each day is a new beginning, a new chance to do something you love and something that makes you happy. You have 24 hours per day to do the best of it.

So after i've philosophized enough, i will shortly present myself :)

I'm 24 years old and I live in a small country named Luxembourg :) i have a wonderful boyfriend and the most perfect dog you could ever imagine :D, his name is SciRocco, but we call him Rocco (on the right). In my next posts you will see more about my big fluffy ball :) I love doing sports and I am a kind of a Disney-Freak :) 

i wish you a wonderful joyful day :) make the best of it!
xoxoxo

Mati <3