Loyalty & Devotion

“Be loyal to the royal within you” – Elaine S.Dalton

may I introduce you to the most loyal Dog in the world: my fluffyball ROCCO :) 

In your life, there will always be someone who expects too much from you and because you want to be loyal to your “friends” you try to satisfy them. But be careful, not everyone deserves your loyalty. Trust those who care about you even in times you think you don’t deserve it. Be strong and learn how to say NO to people who don’t deserve your devotion.

Can you see the bond between those 2? That makes me so happy :)

Loyalty is highly correlated with honesty and it needs to be appreciated. Once you’ve pushed a loyal person to the point where he no longer cares you will probably lose this person forever. Notice the people who are happy for your happiness, and sad for your sadness.

my best one's <3

So here is my advice for you: always be loyal to those who are loyal to you! It’s just as simple as that! Don’t waste your time on people who are abusing your kindness or betraying your loyalty.

So to undergo this situation, be loyal (to those who deserve it). Loyalty does not mean that you have to stick together like glue every single day, but about being real and faithful to each other even when you’re not together (counts for friendships and relationships). Relationships and friendships require loyalty, not as an option but as a priority.

my best friend <3

There is one thing you should never feel sorry for: your trust issues! There is a reason why they are present! You are not responsible for the fact that people disappointed you and hurt you. The worst thing is that the person who complains the most about your issues becomes the person who boosts them. Do yourself a favor, and never let your loyalty make a fool of you! At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people! You need to accept that you can’t force loyalty.

love you <3

It’s all about choices! It’s not about perfection or making mistakes. It’s about an everlasting dishonest character and abandons! Friendship and loyalty are the opposite of dishonesty and abandons! Don’t trust those people when you already have doubts about their sincerity.

By the way, here is a note for all those who feel distracted or irritated when it comes to sarcasm: There is a straight relation between sarcasm and honesty in every relationship! Sarcastic people have the tendency to be more honest, loyal and straightforward with their friends. It sound kind of weird, but using sarcasm is a manner to show your love!

thank you for always being my anker, the one who is always loyal to me!

I wish you a nice weekend my lovely ones!

I’m going to enjoy a good cup of tea because I need to get rid of my bronchitis and pneumonia… Take care of you! Bye-bye 

xoxo 
your Urban ValYOU