Trust me...

Hey guys,

Trusting someone is essential if you want to live in a healthy relationship or if you want to build and nourish a powerful connection with someone else. Giving someone your trust means giving this person a part of your humaneness and your fragility.

Everyone knows how it feels to be deceived. Deceived by a person you love, by a friend you would do anything for, by a member of your family... Do you miss the old happy YOU? The company of your friends and family makes you feel alone due to another's person behaviour? Well... you're at the point where you recognize that something went wrong in your circle of trust! Sometimes you're feeling empty...Not because you feel alone but because someone you really care about broke your trust!

Trust issues will cause you inner pain. Those issues you suffer from will overflow every of your relationships! So one person’s decision do deceive you (YES this is a choice they make, it does not happen out of nothing) has an influence on every other relationship! The only way you can re-feel better is to surround yourself with people who care about you, who trust you and whom you trust, who won’t deceive you and who will do anything to make your life happier and easier.

As I already said in a former post, the moment you start asking yourself whether you can trust someone or not, is the moment you definitely know that you can’t, otherwise the answer would be clear for you and there would be no questions needed. Every relationships and friendships are built on trust! Without trust you won’t have the essential base to start a healthy and good relationship. Without it, you’ll have nothing, nothing strong enough to help you build up something solid and permanent.

So once your trust is broken, it is hard to re-build it!

You need to accept the other person. You are not allowed to judge over his actions neither you can force him to follow your personal opinion. Everyone is responsible for his actions, so are you! Don’t be the one others will blame for their mistakes. Everybody needs to believe in himself and in his decisions.

Be a good friend!

Be honest to each other! Have your personal opinion without hurting your friend, because if you do, they will take distance from you because nobody likes to be hurt for no reason! Let your friends see YOU as you are, and you need to see them as they are!

Respect each other’s feelings. Create a place where you can find comfort and understanding. Be the one your friend will call in his darkest moments. Cherish your time together!

Wish you a nice evening!

xoxo

URBAN VAL-YOU