Love Remedies

“Expectation is the root of all heartache” – William SHAKESPEARE

There are 2 kinds of people: those who are good at being in love, and those who are good at loving! It might sound a little weird to you, but do you even know the difference between “being in love” and “to love someone”?

Being in love is the romantic part at the beginning of your relationship (long conversations without breaks, separation anxiety, sex all the time and everywhere etc.)! In other words, you are in love with the positivity of your partner.

But love… love begins where the “excitement ends”, that means when you have to face the stress in your couple, the tears, the arguments and so on!

When you adore your partner through all these situations, well… that’s what you call love!

I'll go for both: being in love and true love :)

But sometimes love can go wrong! When you partner hurts you intentionally, disrespects you and does not appreciate your actions, then he is not the right one for you! Then he/she is just tolerating your presence and hoping for some personal advantages. A person who has been hurt several times becomes more careful in every other relationship! That means that this person will have a high level of self-protection because she/he might be afraid of being hurt…again! If you want to break the chains of this self-induced anxiety, give your partner the protection she/he needs no matter how much patience it requires.

To everyone with trust issues…you are not alone! There are people all around the world who feel the same way as you do. They’re missing somebody. They have secrets. They wish, dream and hope for a better future. They are like you and you could tell them everything and they would understand. So you see, even if you think you are alone with your fears and thoughts, it is not the case! There are millions like you! Even if most of us are self-centered (and this is normal) they don’t think about others. They just want to improve their own situation!  But just for now, say to yourself that someday, you will find someone who will understand all your fears, trust issues and hopes and you will feel comfortable by telling him everything that bothers you.

If you have the intention to break the trust of your girlfriend/boyfriend, be conscious that this won’t be fixed again in a minute. Remind yourself that she/he is not stupid enough to forget everything that happened. It all depends on the fact how deeply you hurt her/his feelings! So pay attention and don’t play with other people’s feelings.

Don’t forget that in the end, YOU are the one who can change something! Trust yourself and your own feelings. Don’t be afraid to take chances.

“ It’s all about losing and finding special people and learning to value all the memories you have. Learning from the mistakes you make and accepting that certain people in your life will change is integrated in the circle of life”. As Mufasa (Lion King) said, everyone has his special place in the world, the sky is full of stars and one day you will find the person who will be by your side and follow you through all the darkness in your life!

Every woman is unique!

A good partner balances things out, knows when to push you and understands that patience is a virtue. Sometimes people want to rush things and sometimes people will wait that things happen naturally. A great partner challenges you.

And now a little note for all the Men outside: A real woman isn’t perfect but she is definitely worth your effort and sometimes even her faults will motivate you to love her even more! Shawn Steward said that a real woman could be a treasure if you treat her right.

When you take care of something good, something good takes care of you.

I wish you a nice evening:)

Basic Fit Belval

- It's a shame for a woman to grow old without ever seeing the strength and the beauty of which her body is capable!" - Socrates

my favorites :D 

Hello my lovely Val-mily,

A really intelligent person once said: "pain doesn't tell you when you ought to stop! Pain is the little voice in your head that tries to hold you back because it knows if you continue, you will change! Don't let it stop you from being who you can be! Exhaustion tells you when you're ought to stop! You only reach your limit when you can go no further"! And this person was totally right because we need to stop holding ourselves back! If we want to make a change, we have to do something to achieve it, because you won't get a nice ass by only sitting on it! Work for it! I noticed that a lot of women are trying to be skinny but honestly I prefer being fit, because it's better to be a badass instead of a toothpick! Being fit is really important for your mental and physical health, so keep pushing! 

As I noticed that a lot of you are hitting the Gym and some of you had questions about the new Basic Fit in Belval/Luxembourg, I wanted to show you how amazing this Gym really is! 

• The subscription is really cheap compared to every other Gym here in Luxembourg! You can choose between paying immediately for a whole year (239,40 Euros) or month by month for 1 year (20,95 Euros/Month)!
• A lot of parking possibilities  
• Group lessons like virtual Indoor Cycling, Cross-Fit, etc. (individually paid, not integrated in the subscription)
• Only one membership card for the whole family needed
• 3 Basic Fit's in Luxembourg! 
• modern equipment and a cool weight area

Here are some pictures  :)

I wish you a very nice day and a happy weekend :)

xoxo your Mati <3

Strong(WO)MAN 2014

"There is magic in misery. Just ask any runner!" - Dan Karnazes

Hello people :)

Yesterday I went to the Fisherman's Strongman Run (Differdange/Luxembourg)! 

Unfortunately I was not allowed to participate due to tendon-issues! My doctor said my foot wasn't strong enough for such a distance! But hopefully next year will be MY year (I just pre-registered for 2015, so i will keep my fingers crossed that everything will be fine till next year)! 

My boyfriend and his firefighter department (and some other departments too) were responsible for the security of the runners, so I just went there to "visit" him (like good Girlfriends do lol) and to see some friends! 

I have deep respect for all the Finishers!! 22 km aren't short at all!! And in combination with all the obstacles... Aiaiai :D I think I'm going to have some height-issues... Everything is sooooo high or soooo deep that I won't be able to pull myself up or I will simply sink in the dirt-water-pool!! XD

MOTIVATION is everything!! In a few weeks or months, I will write a post about it... Just to increase or keep the level of motivation for everyone who wants to participate next year! :D 

Here are some pictures from yesterday :)

I wish you a nice evening xoxo

Mati <3

Wedding Bells

Hello people!

Last Sunday, I went to the “Lux Wedding Experience” (www.luxwedding.lu) with one of my best friends. As she is getting married in 2016, and as I am one of her bridesmaids (*proud*), we wanted to visit this place, because there is nothing bad about getting some new ideas!

We met a lot of interesting people. 

These were my favorites:

Cakebox:

Cakebox! what an awesome design! so beautiful and so delicious!

I LOVE CAKEBOX!! (www.cakebox.lu) This has to be said! I love their super duper beautiful cakes! They taste DELICIOUS! We had the amazing opportunity to try the chocolate-cream cheesecake, and guys…I ate 2 big slices…I couldn’t resist! …I think that says enough about the taste :D

your Bartender:

Cool guy and awesome cocktails! Your Bartender! 

Valéry MENDES (www.yourbartender.lu) got this awesome idea to offer people the best cocktails for every occasion possible: weddings, private parties, birthdays etc. As we had the possibility to taste them, the only thing I can say is…AWESOME!

He is a very cool and open-minded guy! If you want to make your party a little bit more special, he is your man.

Sylvain JUZAN, the Magician:

we had a lot of fun with you, thank you Mister Magician :)

He was very fun! He showed us some tricks and we were very amazed! It was magical :D. If you want someone to make your party “magically unforgettable”, he is the right guy for you!(www.sylvainjuzan-magicien.com)

Make-Up & Hair: Valentina BECKER:

great Products, awesome job and a sweet person! 

She is one amazing Make-up artist! We had the opportunity to try out some make-up styles: my friend Ana got a simple nude make-up (as she is not someone who likes make-up, this was a big deal for her) and I got some really badass Smokey Eyes. We were both really satisfied. Valentina is a very nice and sweet person.

We met a woman for whose wedding Valentina was booked as a Make-up Artist, and she was 100% satisfied with her work. For more information, visit her page (www.valentinabecker.com)

Luxzelte:

What a beautiful interior! 

Project Manager Dominique SOARES FONESCA (www.luxzelte.lu ) told us that they are working on an international base (but you have to pay for the transport, which is really plausible and fair if you are organizing you wedding in another country). They are not only responsible for the tent but also for the equipment (chairs, decoration etc.). I was very pleased by this one stylish interior you see in the picture!


Vehicles:

Really nice cars and some awesome busses!

If you want to rent some historical/old cars for your event (weddings, party events, trips), then visit www.oldtimerbus.lu. They have some really special cars and busses! Personnaly I think that every wedding needs an oltimer! It's simply an eye-catcher!

So those were my favorites! I hope you liked them too!

I wish you a very sunny afternoon my urbanicious val-mily!

xoxo 

Mati <3