Love Remedies

“Expectation is the root of all heartache” – William SHAKESPEARE

There are 2 kinds of people: those who are good at being in love, and those who are good at loving! It might sound a little weird to you, but do you even know the difference between “being in love” and “to love someone”?

Being in love is the romantic part at the beginning of your relationship (long conversations without breaks, separation anxiety, sex all the time and everywhere etc.)! In other words, you are in love with the positivity of your partner.

But love… love begins where the “excitement ends”, that means when you have to face the stress in your couple, the tears, the arguments and so on!

When you adore your partner through all these situations, well… that’s what you call love!

I'll go for both: being in love and true love :)

But sometimes love can go wrong! When you partner hurts you intentionally, disrespects you and does not appreciate your actions, then he is not the right one for you! Then he/she is just tolerating your presence and hoping for some personal advantages. A person who has been hurt several times becomes more careful in every other relationship! That means that this person will have a high level of self-protection because she/he might be afraid of being hurt…again! If you want to break the chains of this self-induced anxiety, give your partner the protection she/he needs no matter how much patience it requires.

To everyone with trust issues…you are not alone! There are people all around the world who feel the same way as you do. They’re missing somebody. They have secrets. They wish, dream and hope for a better future. They are like you and you could tell them everything and they would understand. So you see, even if you think you are alone with your fears and thoughts, it is not the case! There are millions like you! Even if most of us are self-centered (and this is normal) they don’t think about others. They just want to improve their own situation!  But just for now, say to yourself that someday, you will find someone who will understand all your fears, trust issues and hopes and you will feel comfortable by telling him everything that bothers you.

If you have the intention to break the trust of your girlfriend/boyfriend, be conscious that this won’t be fixed again in a minute. Remind yourself that she/he is not stupid enough to forget everything that happened. It all depends on the fact how deeply you hurt her/his feelings! So pay attention and don’t play with other people’s feelings.

Don’t forget that in the end, YOU are the one who can change something! Trust yourself and your own feelings. Don’t be afraid to take chances.

“ It’s all about losing and finding special people and learning to value all the memories you have. Learning from the mistakes you make and accepting that certain people in your life will change is integrated in the circle of life”. As Mufasa (Lion King) said, everyone has his special place in the world, the sky is full of stars and one day you will find the person who will be by your side and follow you through all the darkness in your life!

Every woman is unique!

A good partner balances things out, knows when to push you and understands that patience is a virtue. Sometimes people want to rush things and sometimes people will wait that things happen naturally. A great partner challenges you.

And now a little note for all the Men outside: A real woman isn’t perfect but she is definitely worth your effort and sometimes even her faults will motivate you to love her even more! Shawn Steward said that a real woman could be a treasure if you treat her right.

When you take care of something good, something good takes care of you.

I wish you a nice evening:)